Wouldn’t you like to know how to increase your sex appeal? Or at least increase your circle of friends? Wouldn’t we all! What is it that constitutes sex appeal anyway? How do you get the charisma, the chutzpah, the je ne sais quoi that others find so alluring?
Often we think of higher heels or tighter abs as the key to success in this area but I say it’s not so. I know many people who would not normally be defined as sexy yet have both sexes clamoring to belong in their inner circle. How does this happen?
From watching their habits and actions, this is what I’ve come to conclude:
- Be good to yourself. If you look after your health then often the rest just falls into place. Make sure you get plenty of sleep, enough exercise and eat properly. Just these 3 things alone increases your well being by releasing the “feel good” endorphins regulary. Easy!
- Be passionate. Find something that you are passionate about whether it be salsa dancing, art history or woodworking. Curious and enthusiastic people are much more fun to talk to.
- Be positive. No one wants to be around someone who is negative and always complaining. As my mom always said, if you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all. There’s a reason for that. Thinking in a positive manner attracts more positive into your life.
- Be authentic. Just be yourself. Besides the fact that it’s difficult being something that you’re not, others can sense the phoniness as well. No one wants to be around someone who’s a fake.
- Be fake Huh? I know this sounds confusing but I highly recommend the “fake it till you make it” routine. It’s all in the attitude and if you don’t have a good one to start with, act as if you do. Pretty soon you’ll find it comes natural.
- Be worthy. If you want self worth then do worthy things. When you help others, you feel good about yourself. It’s a selfish act that spreads a lot of joy!
- Be happy. It takes less muscles to smile than it does to frown and others are far more attracted to cheerful face than a gloomy one.
While these may not be what is normally defined as sex appeal boosters, they really are the secret ingredients to increase your magnetism. Try one and you’ll see how well it works.